LISA ARTERTON
Coercive Control & Post-Separation Abuse Specialist
A PRIVATE COMMUNITY FOR WOMEN
The Sanctuary
Something has just happened & you don't know what to do...
Real life support for when everything feels like too much.

Bring it in.
You got an email from him and you've read it six times.
Your child has come home and said something that's worried you.
He's telling you that you agreed to something you don't remember agreeing to.
You've said no to something and he's absolutely kicked off.
Something has changed with contact.
You're being pressured to make a decision.
You've got CAFCASS, court, mediation or a professional meeting coming up and your head is full.
Or nothing particularly dramatic has happened today, you're just fucking exhausted by it all.
You can bring ALL of that into The Sanctuary.
The Sanctuary is my private online community for women navigating coercive control and post-separation abuse.
It's £27 a month with no contracts and I'm inside it every single day.
Private
community
Real support
Real situations
Lisa inside
every day
No judgement
Just understanding

YOU DON'T HAVE TO WORK IT OUT BEFORE YOU POST
You don't need to give me the whole history.
You don't need to write a perfect chronology.
You don't even need to know what you're asking.
You can literally come in and say:
"This has just happened and I don't know what to think."
And we start there.
This is the kind of thing women bring into The Sanctuary.
REAL MESSAGES. REAL SITUATIONS. REAL WOMEN.
"He's sent me this.
Am I reading it wrong?"
"My child has just said this
and i don't know how to
respond."
" He's saying I agreed to this.
I don't think I did."
"I said no & now he's furious.
Was I unreasonable?"
"I've written a massive reply and I'm about to send it."
"I've got CAFCASS next week
and I don't know what is
actually important."
"Something happened at handover and now I'm questioning myself."
"I've just had another solicitor's email and I can't even bring myself to open it."
"I know what he's doing.
I just don't know what
to do with it."
"I don't need advice.
I just need someone who
fucking gets it today."
You don't have to save everything up for an appointment.
If something happens today, you can bring it in today.
I'm inside The Sanctuary multiple times a day and I'll respond when I'm next in there.